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Qadar : Conversation cards for taaruf (before marriage)
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The people closest to us are often the ones we say the least to.
Not because we do not care. Because there is never quite a moment for it.
Qalbeen is to create this moment.
We are a small team, insyaAllah. Reprints depend on orders. If you can, support us. And if you cannot, a sincere doa means just as much.
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« The cards set a frame and took us straight to what mattered, but above all they eased an atmosphere that had been very tense at the start. We still talk about it. We say thank God they were there. »
Now married ✓ Verified review« I had not been able to read this person for months. In one meeting I saw far more than I had in ten. »
N. ✓ Verified review« They are part of my process now, and today I am proud to say they helped me find the right one. We plan to marry soon inshaAllah. »
A. ✓ Verified review« My daughter and her fiance loved it. They went through almost all the questions in one evening, with me there, that is how much they enjoyed it. »
A mother ✓ Verified review« I needed the important questions. I used them from the very first meeting, with the person I am about to marry inshaAllah. »
E. ✓ Verified reviewMore serenity
More intention
More Barakah
More presence
The first question opens the subject. The one you dare to ask, and the one that usually gets a well-prepared answer.
2The second goes after what the first one missed. An example, a real situation, a reaction. That is where you actually learn something.
West Malaysia. Sabah & Sarawak add 2 to 3 working days.
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They opened a box, and the evening turned into something else.
I thought I knew my husband. These cards took us into things that had never even crossed my mind. Walking back from the park, I felt my love for him grow.
Honestly, when I ordered I thought: what are a few cards going to change about me? But subhanAllah, the box arrived exactly when I needed it most.
My nephews only ever talked to me about YouTube. I said enough, let us talk about something else. Now every evening, they get one card.
Every night we each pull one card. It helped us communicate, and actually say the things we were keeping to ourselves.
For someone like me who struggles with conversation, there is nothing better. Beyond making the talk healthy, it builds a bond.
A real conversation with your own soul, not the usual waswas. I would recommend journaling alongside it, so your reflections leave a trace.
There is no minimum or maximum number of years of marriage for this. We pull one card every evening, just for that moment outside of time.
They opened the door to conversations we had never had before.
What I appreciate most is how simple the questions are, right for both parent and child. A brilliant way to spend time together, away from screens.
The game came with us on our honeymoon. It let us take stock and talk about the future with an open heart. We still bring it out. It is our moment.
I did it with someone who is not Muslim. She really enjoyed it, and it even taught her more about Islam through our answers.
It lets you bring up delicate subjects gently, without anyone feeling attacked.
There is a piece of flesh in the body if it becomes good the whole body becomes good...
Prophet Mohammed ﷺ
Conversation cards for Muslim homes. Each box holds 79 cards and 158 questions, and every card carries two questions: the first opens the subject, the second goes after what the first one missed. You pull one after Isya', you talk, and that is the whole thing. No rules, no scoring, nothing to prepare.
Habibi for married couples. Qadar for the getting-to-know stage before marriage. Tafkir for family and friends. Tafkids for parents and children. Nafsi for yourself, on your own. If you are between two, message us and we will point you to the right one.
No. Every box was built around what actually holds a relationship together: how you speak to each other, what you expect, how you raise your children, where Allah sits in the middle of it. Written by humans from the community, with a doctor in psychology. Every source checked before printing, no loose hadith, ever.
That is the most common reason people buy it. The card carries the question, so nobody has to be the one who wanted to talk. More often than not, the person who "does not do this kind of thing" ends up pulling the next card themselves.
Yes, and differently. Newly-weds discover things they never got to ask before the akad. Couples of ten or fifteen years find that the answers have quietly changed. The same is true for families and for friendships. People change, and the box follows.
The cards are in English. Answer in whatever language you speak at home. Most people read the question in English and answer in Malay, and that works perfectly.
No, and please do not. Most people pull one or two cards in an evening and stop there. A box is made to last months.
They are meant to open something, not to corner anyone. If a card does not feel right tonight, put it back and pull another. Nobody owes an answer.
Most of those who use it are doing fine, and want to keep it that way. It is closer to maintenance than to repair.
Yes, and many people do. They start with one, then add another as life moves. Each box lights a different part of the heart, and none of them repeats another.
Depends on the box. Tafkids is written for parents and children. Habibi and Qadar are for two adults, and some questions are not meant for young ears. Tafkir works with the whole family at the table.
79 cards, a cotton pouch, and a short card explaining how to start. Compact enough for a handbag or a travel case.
From our own stock in Kuala Lumpur. Nothing comes from overseas, so nothing sits in customs.
1 to 3 working days across West Malaysia. Add 2 to 3 days for Sabah and Sarawak. Orders placed before 2pm on a working day go out the same day.
FPX online banking, debit and credit card, and the usual e-wallets. Everything is confirmed on screen before you pay.
Yes. You get a tracking number as soon as the parcel leaves us.
That is the Amana promise. Your order is a trust. If something is not right, message us and we sort it out together, insyaAllah.
It is one of the most given. Not another object on a shelf, but an evening the people you love will actually spend together. Many are given at a walimah, a birth, or simply to a sister going through something.
Yes. Put their address at checkout and we send it directly. We never put an invoice in the parcel.
No. No price appears anywhere in the parcel or on the box.
Habibi for a married couple. Qadar for someone in the getting-to-know stage. Tafkir for family and friends. Tafkids for parents and children. Nafsi for a sister going through something on her own. If you are unsure, message us.
Tell us who it is for and we will point you to the right box. A real person answers, usually within the day insyaAllah.